Maimah Karmo's story of beating Cancer is spreading throughout the web. Most recently, TODAY featured her story on survival, read it here:
My
mom is a nurse and she taught me at 13 the importance of knowing my
body. She sat me down and said, "You're getting breasts. Let me show you
how to check them so if something happens when you're older, you know
what to look for. If you find out early, you'll be fine."
She
kept reinforcing that to the point where it became a habit for me. I
would do my breast self-examination every month in the shower. I did
that religiously for 18 years and then at 31 years old, I felt a lump in
my breast. I knew right away that it did not belong there.
There's
no history of cancer in my family, so I didn't think it could be
cancer. I got a mammogram and it came back clean. They said, you have a
cyst, it's not cancer. I insisted on a biopsy, but I was told to come
back in six months to a year. So I waited.
I finally had a biopsy. The next day was Feb. 28, 2006, and the doctor called me at 4:45 p.m.
to tell me that I had breast cancer. It was aggressive and it was
triple negative breast cancer. It was so surreal. I just thought: This
is it, I'm done.
My
daughter was 3 and I just was in sheer panic. My whole life revolves
around her, I'm a single mom. My first thought was: How can I leave her
without a mom?
In
my office, there are pictures of Noelle everywhere. She's my world. I
kept looking at the pictures and thinking: She'll never get to know me
as a woman; I'm never going to have those moments with her that teach
her how to live, how to love. She won't know how much I love her.
The most gripping fear I had wasn't about my life, it was about "I can't leave her."
I
was in shock so I had to figure out what to say to her. Everyone said,
you can't tell her about this, she's too young to understand. But to me,
that's not respecting my child as a human being.
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