It baffles me that men/women after exchanging these vows,
they still go out of their way to violate these laws. Today I am talking about
women, men relax and after reading these tell me if I am right or wrong. I am
writing based on my personal experiences.
Last Sunday in 2016, I was in church at Corpus Christi
Cathedral Port Harcourt, a couple walked into the church with their two
children. The seats were filled up and they had to manage the little spaces
remaining. The wife got a sit on another row while her husband and one of her
sons got on my own row.
The man sat close to me and the younger boy mere looking at
him, you will know he is the stubborn type. He was playing a rough play and as
a lady who had been with children, I knew if the boy wasn’t controlled he might
injure himself. I decided to help the man control his son. The boy obeyed me
more than his daddy and I carried him.
The man’s wife was so uncomfortable that she called her
husband to come and sit on her own sit while she sits on her husband’s own. Her
hubby didn’t get her in the first place and he focused on the sermon that was
going on. The woman stood up from her sit, came to our row and asked her
husband to stand up and the man did. She sat there and asked her husband to go
and sit on her own sit and he obeyed.
After service, she told her husband that he would explain to
her why he allowed me to help him carry their son or we have met each other
before? She continued to rant until I left their sight.
I want to also know why a lot of women refuse to cook for
their husbands, some claim they get tired after work etc. I know a lot of men
who provides everything for their family and still don’t get dinner regularly.
Some said their wives will just say if you are hungry go to the kitchen and
prepare your meal.
Sisters you are not only in his house, to answer Mrs., spend
his money, bear children and give him sex at night. I heard most us don’t even
do that, that we do it when we want “choi” I heard one saying, it is because
you are taking care of my children I would have left you long ago#Inukwa! Many wives mistreat their God given husband a
lot but because of time let me cut it short. The earlier you change and treat
him well the better for you. I know many married women think they have virtue
but na lie, they don’t have at all. And since you snatched the man from another
sister to marry does not mean another sister will take him away from you.
Please trust your husband, don’t use your standard to judge people.
Men no matter how you see them, I don’t believe cheating is
part of them; it is only an ungrateful man that will abandon his lovely wife
and run to the arms of another woman who
is sleeping with other men “women with no virtue”
Last Sunday, a woman embarrassed her husband in church with
3 hot slaps three times because the man was sleeping when the sermon was going.
The act of that beautiful woman turned me off immediately. I wanted to talk to
her after service but decided to leave her.
Even when her hubby asked her questions, the look on her face explained
what the man might be going through in his home.
Please sisters, treat him the way you will want him to treat
you, if you are tired of him and you can’t cope just tell him and leave him in
peace than making his life a living hell. Leaving him to be with another man or
other men like most of us do is very bad. Let’s stop here and continue next
time. Be nice sisters
1 comment:
Agatha thanks for this information what do I do to change my wife. I am afraid she might kill me one day. It is obvious she is cheating on me but I have not caught her
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