I told you guys we don't only gossip here, we give you news that will inspire you..read.
We are in a society where women are diseased by a chronic consumption mentality. When you ask an average Nigerian lady what her dreams are, she may be fast to tell you that she wants to be the wife of a rich, generous guy. And when you look around her, her own father is poor and she doesn't have any plans of working herself out of poverty. She waits for another man's child to come deliver her from her poverty. Ironically, such women are the most disrespectful and loudest with the corrupted version of feminism, which makes them believe that a man is meant to be ridden on and possibly got rid of.
Linda Ikeji did not even have the fortune of being born with a wooded spoon. I had shared her story on this timeline before. She had the most bitter of experiences and her ass whipped by poverty. She was insulted, derided and attempts were made to take advantage of her, but she held her head high and kept her eyes on her goals. Today, she is undoubtedly one of Africa's best ladies.
For those saying that she may become disrespectful to her husband because of the so much wealth she has gathered. I think it is only very weak men who will think in that direction. Linda has made good money from doing legitimate things, and it is only very intelligent human beings who can achieve what she has achieved through blogging. Wise women know how to be a wife.
The kind of men who will have problems with Linda are those men who see women as some low creatures who who are only good to be treated with disrespect, or some lazy men who will be attracted to Linda because of the wealth she boasts of now.
A hardworking and responsible man will go for Linda, if he is truly attracted to her. Marriage is a partnership, and a partnership works better when the two people involved, play their roles adequately, without seeking to cheat the other.
Also, like someone pointed out; marriage is not an achievement. Marriage is a choice, and Linda can choose to remain single. She can decide to live her life for humanity without the inhibitions of marriage.
Every youth should just look at ways to make the best of whatever you do. Be successful at what you do, do not allow family, background, education or whatever to stall your aspiration in life. Do not build your dreams on anyone. I think, Linda's best secret is her desire to disappoint those who think she will not succeed and her biggest motivation should be to become richer than those men who saw her as a piece of meat during her trial days.
Get your own motivation from the unlikeliest of places and soar, you can.
Congratulations to Linda, the emerging amazon.
Written by Onwuasoanya Fcc Jones
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