Having said that , please don't deliberately go into a relationship with someone you don't have anything in common with, someone you know fully well that you can never be caught dead with , someone that you don't have any long term plans for, that deep down inside , you don't have or see any future with , just for the fun of it ! It is so wrong ! At least if thats your intention , let the other person be aware that the relationship is just for fun !
Don't date a single mother /father if you know deep inside you that you can never marry one ! Don't date him/her knowing fully well that he/she is a so called osu , and play I cant never an osu , we can still be friends at the end of the day .
Don't date a yoruba, Igbo , or Hausa if you know deep inside you that you can never marry outside your tribe .
Don't date a Muslim /christian ; or tall /short or fat/slim , fair/dark person only for you to start claiming right to personal preferences after wasting their time .
Don't date a yoruba, Igbo , or Hausa if you know deep inside you that you can never marry outside your tribe .
Don't date a Muslim /christian ; or tall /short or fat/slim , fair/dark person only for you to start claiming right to personal preferences after wasting their time .
If you know you can not marry an uneducated, Onitsha market trader, then don't date him ! Don't take his money , and claim it was just a relationship and mustn't lead to marriage .
The heart is not a play ground . Someone's life and time shouldn't be treated like a corporation where you go to your internship/industrial attachment , or a trade , where you do your apprenticeship. You don't deliberately toy with people's emotions and use this bogus statement as an excuse . Don't make people fall in love with you if you have the intention of catching them just because you want to feel like King Kong !
Relationship must not lead to marriage, but this is in a situation where two people genuinely entered a relationship and realized that they cant be together due to some fundamental irreconcilable differences; and not when one party has been playing the other from day one .
Honestly, we need to stop using some of these generalized terms , to enable and rationalize our selfishness and callousness.
Written by Nora Oma
5 comments:
Agatha this lady an awesome woman, she always slays. Please keep giving us her write ups.
Nora thanks for this, people toy with people and get away which is a very bad thing to do.
Bless you OMA. Wicked World.
Testing is allowed nau. You never can tell.
Nice advise
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