#Choice:Would you rather be your own woman or baby mama earning higher?

I am writing this story today based on the things I have and read, especially on social media.

Baby mamas and daddies, now most people want to have child/children before marriage. Some ladies , getting desperate to be impregnated by a man whose wallet is full of cash, just to get her own share of the money. Why do you want a share of what is not yours or what you did not work for?

I took my time to through Davido and his baby mama’s story, it is obvious Davido never liked Sophy Momodu and the pregnancy was entitled a huge mistake by the Adelekes, while many believed Sophy  Momodu wanted to trap Davido with the baby and get her own share of Davido’s  fortune. But why would you sleep with someone whom you know deep down inside your heart you will not marry and you are not in love with?

Thou not all relationships leads to marriage and it is obvious that people pretend a lot, from my research 67% of people in the world did not marry and will not marry their love. They end up where they think it is comfortable.

Back to Baby mamas: I gathered Davido pays his baby mama #300, 000 per month with an apartment to go by it in an exclusive neighborhood in Lagos state called Lekki. From the information I gathered so far, other celebrities such as: Flavour, Wizkid etc also have baby mamas leaving in the same Lekki and they might be getting what Davido’s mama is getting monthly.

Therefore, some ladies who don’t believe in themselves strive to catch a man with fat wallet to become their baby daddy and live off them. While some, will prefer to sell pure water than be someone’s baby mama.

This Davido’s story made some people believe that becoming a baby mama is a lucrative job which offers lots of money, than making something good out of their lives. Yes,  Davido’s baby mama may be  earning more than many Lawyers, Doctors, Engineers and other graduates a month. May baby mamas not earn more than you and I amen.

Now Davido is striving so hard to make sure he takes his daughter Aurora away from her mother Sophy Momodu. Flavour has two baby mamas: Sandra Okagbue and Anna Banner. Thou Anna banner claims to be in love with Flavour but falavour said he is still searching for love. E ring? During Davido and Sophy’s problem, Whizkid defended Davido from all he said, he too is fed up with the whole idea.

How long are you going to face humiliations from all these trivial things? Work hard and be yourself, if you are lucky to meet someone with a fat bank account good. But working so hard just to land on a paradise without wise work is a no.

This post is dedicated to all the wise working people in the whole world.

Agatha C 2016.