When I say shoes are getting married, a lot of people get
confused. Marriage is for better for worse is the reason why you shouldn’t
marry for any reason. Marry for the sake of love not for the sake of fame,
wealth, connections, beauty, or any form of outward appearance. “Appearances
are deceptive”.
I have come to notice that marriages wreck every day by day,
why do you think such things occur? They occur because people marry for the
wrong reasons, because the man is wealthy, handsome, famous, from an
influential family etc. What happens when the money, fame etc is no more there
or when you have all these things and lack the major thing that your marriage
needs?.
The guys want to marry a very tall pretty lady with coca cola
shape, a woman with nice boobs, a woman that is influential, famous, from
wealthy family, with good job and many more.
You know so well that the person you are about to marry or married is
not the woman you want. You just want people to say man your wife is beautiful
but deep down inside, you are not happy. Your happiness is only on the surface.
Just to please the world and prove a point you know is not true.
If you are in a marriage that no longer interests you, please
don’t stay there and act up. Take the bold step and walk away. Walking away is
the best than trying to kill yourself or your partner. Some said they will make
life a living hell for their partner; don’t forget that you are also giving yourself
a big problem. Leave the marriage for the sake of peace and decency; don’t use
your kids as an excuse to torment your partner. Leave and your kids will just
be fine than seeing you fight each other every day by day.
Don’t marry the container; make sure you marry the content.
A man is handsome, rich and influential is not a guaranty that he will be a
good husband, same goes to a woman. What happens when the big boobs sags, when
the vagina walls are no longer firm like it used to be, when the penis is no
longer as strong as it used to be? Yes, the wealth and fame may still be there
or let’s say it has disappeared. What will keep your union going? True love,
patience, sacrifice, tolerance and support.
People no longer respect their marriage, men and women with
no virtue everywhere just to satisfy their selfish desires. Having an
extra-marital affair is endangering your own “partner”. The person you are dating may decide to hurt
your partner or take him/her out of this world untimely.
When I was growing up, what trended then was marrying
someone who lives abroad. Many young girls
then, changed their destinies just to marry abroad guy, especially
America. Today, many of them are
regretting it. Some left many years ago and some are praying for the death of
their partner. Some who think they are
smart out-smarted their men, got their stay and kicked the men out their ass. But
one thing some of us don’t know is this: growing old with your man is the best
thing anybody can do in this life.
When you marry for a reason your marriage must break for a
reason. When you marry for no reason, you marriage will never have any reason
to break. Marriage has its own ups and down, only true love, sacrifice,
endurance and understanding will make it work. Before you end your marriage think twice and
make sure it is for the best. Don’t come to social media to rant after spoiling
things for yourself or attack people who say their minds. Don’t forget you made
it public and people must talk about it. Don’t call us haters; we are not hater
but people trying to give their honest opinions or what we think.
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