Sunday, October 18

The Nigerian Irony and double standard.


So you are guy , you want to get married but wont marry any lady 30 years and above because according to you they are old cargos ; meanwhile you also have a sister or sisters at home who are above 30 years . And every day you pray for these your sisters to get married , to find their Prince Charming , story !! Who go come carry your own bad market ?


- You are a lady and wont marry a guy because he is not driving a range rover meanwhile your brothers who are of marriageable age are broke ass men ! They can't even fed themselves talk less of a woman ! Sister who go come marry your own brothers wey no get money as you no wan marry guy because he no get money ? 

- You don't want to marry a divorcee ! You don't want to marry a single mother or father ! Mama and papa will say over their dead body ! Meanwhile your own daughter , son , sister or brother are divorced or are single parents ! You pray and wish for them to get a second chance to love , while you stand in the way of another person ! Which God do you even worship ?

- How about you brother claiming she is too fat ! Too short ! Too dark ! Ugly or what have you ? How beautiful are your own biological sisters ? How fair are they that you are giving all these quotations about what you want in a woman as if you are ordering a product from china ? Some of you have sisters that your family is willing to give to any interested suitors for free, yet you come outside and call women names ! You come outside and give specifications ! Oh please!

- You that is busy calling a girl ashawo ! Saying that the reason why you , your family member or friends should not marry her is because she is promiscuous , hope all your sisters are virgins as well ? If not let no man marry them as well !

Before you ever open your mouth to point out something wrong with another person , please make sure your mother , father , brothers , sisters , in fact your entire kindred are free of that judgemental situation or circumstance !!
Believe it or not , God does not sleep ! You can not pray and wish for something while you destroy another person's opportunity or potentials of getting that same thing !! Life does not work that way !
Nora Oma Patrick (c), 2015 .

1 comment:

Olovo said...

Well,,its her opinion n choice...but let her wealth n fame no enter her head or else she go remain single ooooo......sometimes u need to bring urself down

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